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وَءَاتُواْ ٱلنِّسَآءَ صَدُقَـٰتِہِنَّ نِحۡلَةً۬‌ۚ فَإِن طِبۡنَ لَكُمۡ عَن شَىۡءٍ۬ مِّنۡهُ نَفۡسً۬ا فَكُلُوهُ هَنِيٓـًٔ۬ا مَّرِيٓـًٔ۬ا

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And give unto the women (whom ye marry) free gift of their marriage portions; but if they of their own accord remit unto you a part thereof, then ye are welcome to absorb it (in your wealth).

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Och ge åt kvinnor (vem ni gifta) fria gåva av deras äktenskap portioner, men om de av sig själva ansvarsområde er en del av detta, då ni är välkomna att absorbera den (i din rikedom).

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وَلَا تُؤۡتُواْ ٱلسُّفَهَآءَ أَمۡوَٲلَكُمُ ٱلَّتِى جَعَلَ ٱللَّهُ لَكُمۡ قِيَـٰمً۬ا وَٱرۡزُقُوهُمۡ فِيہَا وَٱكۡسُوهُمۡ وَقُولُواْ لَهُمۡ قَوۡلاً۬ مَّعۡرُوفً۬ا

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Give not unto the foolish (what is in) your (keeping of their) wealth, which Allah hath given you to maintain; but feed and clothe them from it, and speak kindly unto them.

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Ge inte åt dåraktig (vad) din (hållande av deras) förmögenhet, som Allah har givit dig att behålla, men mat och kläder dem från det, och tala vänligt till dem.

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وَٱبۡتَلُواْ ٱلۡيَتَـٰمَىٰ حَتَّىٰٓ إِذَا بَلَغُواْ ٱلنِّكَاحَ فَإِنۡ ءَانَسۡتُم مِّنۡہُمۡ رُشۡدً۬ا فَٱدۡفَعُوٓاْ إِلَيۡہِمۡ أَمۡوَٲلَهُمۡ‌ۖ وَلَا تَأۡكُلُوهَآ إِسۡرَافً۬ا وَبِدَارًا أَن يَكۡبَرُواْ‌ۚ وَمَن كَانَ غَنِيًّ۬ا فَلۡيَسۡتَعۡفِفۡ‌ۖ وَمَن كَانَ فَقِيرً۬ا فَلۡيَأۡكُلۡ بِٱلۡمَعۡرُوفِ‌ۚ فَإِذَا دَفَعۡتُمۡ إِلَيۡہِمۡ أَمۡوَٲلَهُمۡ فَأَشۡہِدُواْ عَلَيۡہِمۡ‌ۚ وَكَفَىٰ بِٱللَّهِ حَسِيبً۬ا

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Prove orphans till they reach the marriageable age; then, if ye find them of sound judgment, deliver over unto them their fortune; and devour it not by squandering and in haste lest they should grow up Whoso (of the guardians) is rich, let him abstain generously (from taking of the property of orphans); and whoso is poor let him take thereof in reason (for his guardianship). And when ye deliver up their fortune unto orphans, have (the transaction) witnessed in their presence. Allah sufficeth as a Reckoner.

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Bevisa föräldralösa tills de når giftasvuxen ålder, för då, om ni hittar dem på gott omdöme, leverera över dem deras lycka, och sluka det inte av slöseri och i all hast så att de ska växa upp Vemhelst (av vårdnadshavare) är rik, låt honom avstå generöst (från att ta av fastigheten föräldralösa barn), och vemhelst är dålig låt honom ta dessa i skäl (för hans förmyndarskap). Och när ni ger upp sina barn lycka åt, har (transaktionen) bevittnade i deras närvaro. Allah ska skydda som Bedömare.

Sitting here alone at the hotelroom one second its so sunny and the next its storm and almost raining outside.

So I sit here and look back on my time I have had in Mersin ...

One of the questions that comes up is - How did we afford all this travel back and forward? We must have been spending so much on tickets, specially in the begining when we had not found the cheap flights yet. I have been flying with SAS and Turkish Airlines and they are so expencive, I thank Allah for Pegasus and that they have great transfar tickets. But all those money have been worthy! Every time I have been with my husband do look back on with happiness, even if it always have not been.

I miss it so much to have him around me even if he is just sitting there next to his computer and playing okay instead of spending time with me. Its not easy when we are apart a long time and when we meet we expect from eachother that we will give 100 % attention to eachother. That is not working in long time, so I look so forward to when Gökhan is gonna move here and we can start a normal relationship. Never know its maybe just 2 months left until he is here!!