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وَلَا تَنكِحُواْ مَا نَكَحَ ءَابَآؤُڪُم مِّنَ ٱلنِّسَآءِ إِلَّا مَا قَدۡ سَلَفَ‌ۚ إِنَّهُ ۥ ڪَانَ فَـٰحِشَةً۬ وَمَقۡتً۬ا وَسَآءَ سَبِيلاً

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And marry not those women whom your fathers married, except what hath already happened (of that nature) in the past. Lo! it was ever lewdness and abomination, and an evil way.

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Och gifta sig inte de kvinnor som era fäder gift, utom det som har redan hänt (av detta slag) i det förflutna. Lo! det var allt skändlighet och styggelse, och en ond väg.

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حُرِّمَتۡ عَلَيۡڪُمۡ أُمَّهَـٰتُكُمۡ وَبَنَاتُكُمۡ وَأَخَوَٲتُڪُمۡ وَعَمَّـٰتُكُمۡ وَخَـٰلَـٰتُكُمۡ وَبَنَاتُ ٱلۡأَخِ وَبَنَاتُ ٱلۡأُخۡتِ وَأُمَّهَـٰتُڪُمُ ٱلَّـٰتِىٓ أَرۡضَعۡنَكُمۡ وَأَخَوَٲتُڪُم مِّنَ ٱلرَّضَـٰعَةِ وَأُمَّهَـٰتُ نِسَآٮِٕكُمۡ وَرَبَـٰٓٮِٕبُڪُمُ ٱلَّـٰتِى فِى حُجُورِڪُم مِّن نِّسَآٮِٕكُمُ ٱلَّـٰتِى دَخَلۡتُم بِهِنَّ فَإِن لَّمۡ تَكُونُواْ دَخَلۡتُم بِهِنَّ فَلَا جُنَاحَ عَلَيۡڪُمۡ وَحَلَـٰٓٮِٕلُ أَبۡنَآٮِٕڪُمُ ٱلَّذِينَ مِنۡ أَصۡلَـٰبِڪُمۡ وَأَن تَجۡمَعُواْ بَيۡنَ ٱلۡأُخۡتَيۡنِ إِلَّا مَا قَدۡ سَلَفَ‌ۗ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ كَانَ غَفُورً۬ا رَّحِيمً۬ا

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Forbidden unto you are your mothers, and your daughters, and your sisters, and your father's sisters, and your mother's sisters, and your brother's daughters and your sister's daughters, and your foster-mothers, and your foster-sisters, and your mothers-in-law, and your step-daughters who are under your protection (born) of your women unto whom ye have gone in - but if ye have not gone in unto them, then it is no sin for you (to marry their daughters) - and the wives of your sons who (spring) from your own loins. And (it is forbidden unto you) that ye should have two sisters together, except what hath already happened (of that nature) in the past. Lo! Allah is ever Forgiving, Merciful.

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Förbjudna er är era mödrar, och dina döttrar och dina systrar och din fars systrar, och din mors systrar, och din brors döttrar och din systers döttrar, och din fosterson mödrar, och din fosterson systrar, och din blivande mödrar i rättspraxis, och en steg-döttrar som är under ditt beskydd (född) av era kvinnor åt som ni har gått in - men om ni har inte gått in till dem, då är det ingen synd för dig (att gifta sig med deras döttrar) - och hustrur till era söner som (våren) från din egen rygg. Och (är det förbjudet för er) att ni skall ha två systrar tillsammans, utom det som har redan hänt (av detta slag) i det förflutna. Lo! Allah är ständigt förlåtande, barmhärtig.

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۞ وَٱلۡمُحۡصَنَـٰتُ مِنَ ٱلنِّسَآءِ إِلَّا مَا مَلَكَتۡ أَيۡمَـٰنُڪُمۡ‌ۖ كِتَـٰبَ ٱللَّهِ عَلَيۡكُمۡ‌ۚ وَأُحِلَّ لَكُم مَّا وَرَآءَ ذَٲلِڪُمۡ أَن تَبۡتَغُواْ بِأَمۡوَٲلِكُم مُّحۡصِنِينَ غَيۡرَ مُسَـٰفِحِينَ‌ۚ فَمَا ٱسۡتَمۡتَعۡتُم بِهِۦ مِنۡہُنَّ فَـَٔاتُوهُنَّ أُجُورَهُنَّ فَرِيضَةً۬‌ۚ وَلَا جُنَاحَ عَلَيۡكُمۡ فِيمَا تَرَٲضَيۡتُم بِهِۦ مِنۢ بَعۡدِ ٱلۡفَرِيضَةِ‌ۚ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ كَانَ عَلِيمًا حَكِيمً۬ا

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And all married women (are forbidden? unto you) save those (captives) whom your right hands possess. It is a decree of Allah for you. Lawful unto you are all beyond those mentioned, so that ye seek them with your wealth in honest wedlock, not debauchery. And those of whom ye seek content (by marrying them), give unto them their portions as a duty. And there is no sin for you in what ye do by mutual agreement after the duty (hath been done). Lo! Allah is ever Knower, Wise.

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Och alla gifta kvinnor (är förbjudna? er) spara dessa (fångar) som din högra hand besitter. Det är ett dekret av Allah för dig. Laglig er alla än de nämnda, så att ni söker dem med din rikedom i äktenskapet ärliga, inte utsvävningar. Och de som ni söka innehåll (genom att gifta sig dem), ge dem deras portioner som en plikt. Och det finns ingen synd för er i vad ni gör i samförstånd efter det att tullen (har blivit gjort). Lo! Allah är ständigt Vet, vise.

Hello Everyone! Long time no see ...

I have not been able to connect to internet here in Uppsala but finally it works! I was almost on my way to buy my own internet to make it work. It have happen some things seen last time I wrote.

Alot have happen at work, one wedding and mothersday was full of people also a big group from Italy.

The most nerve wracking have been today, Gökhan went to Ankara last night to apply for recidence. He had it early this morning and he wake me up and tell me to go online fast ...

He was totaly upset over what happen on interview, he answered wrong on questions and the ambassy was yelling to him why he dident know dates and places. But how could he be able to remember the the exact name of the hotel we stayed at in Kemer, not even I remember it!

They were also yelling to him about papers that he had been bringing papers that they dident want, but Gökhan had them with him just in case they wanted.

So now we dont know what will happen, everything depends on how wrong he answered. I guess they will compare his answers with my answers that I will send in 1 month later. Insallah it will work out in the end!!

This is the papers they wanted -

Gökhans passport copy

Nüfüs

My Extract of the Population Register

Our marrigebook

Application for residence permit to settle in Sweden (nr. 161011)

Application Family details (nr. 239011)

All this papers have to have a copy and be in english. Also you have to show the embassy a resit that the 1500 kr is payed in for the recidence. If we had been living together in Turkey for over 2 years we should have given them papers on contracts and registration papers.