It have finally come, my new passport!

This morning just after I woke up I got a text from the police that my passport was now at the police station and ready for pickup. So I dress up and quickly eat up my breakfast. Driving of to the area close to the station and by luck finds a free parking spot in the shadow!

At the station it was full of people and all seemed like they had been waiting for a while. So it was just to take a seat and wait. But it seems like all those people was waiting to refreash there passport and I was just there to pick mine up so I just sat down for 2 min and my number came up! Thats luck!

After that I walked to centrum to the libary to take a copy of it, that was needed to Gökhans recidence papers.

So when I came home I signed his papers and took them to the post office and now they are on the way to Migrationsverket and now our long waiting have started!

Gökhan thinks we will get the answer in one month but I am not that positive about it. I belive we will get it just in time for my travel home after the wedding party in october. Anyway we dont need it until that, its no point for Gökhan to come here before I go down in september.

The papers I had to send to the migrationsverket was -

Försäkran om samlevnad för gifta och sambo ''228011''

Familyproof

Copy of  ID

Photos from the times we have been together

I also sent in some of the tickets from all my travel back and forward to Mersin, just to make sure they had enough proof that we are a couple.

I am tired. I am sad. I am angry. I am sitting here and trying to find me another job.

I am off today, for forst time for a week I sleeped longer then to 8 am. I woke up of  a textmessage, if my friend had not sent that I probably should have sleept even longer. I was able to eat breakfast in calm, normal pace. I spent extra long time on my makeup, why do that when I was off?

Well I was going to the Polis to fix new passport. Because this tuesday I finally got OK from Skatteverket after alot of fighting and crying that I am from now on Mrs Baysal.

So I have been fixing passport, went to Skatteverket to get a new print out of my familyproof to Gökhans recidence applycation.

Whish I by the why also resived this tuesday, so at tuesday I was refiling his papers.

Now its just to wait for my new passport and to take a copy of that, then send Gökhans papers and then the long waiting can begin. I am waiting long time on that! I am so exited to have my husband here next to me! My life should be complete, my days should pass by so much easier!

Now I will enjoy my last hours as off work with a movie, great food, pepsi, frutes and candy. After that look for more jobs!

For some days now I have been hanging after Skatteverket because they have not fix our marriage papers or my surname chang yet.

Yesterday I got a number to a woman that they said was responsible  for our case. When I call her she have no idea what I was talking about and she asked if she could call me back today. So she did when I was on my way to the store to buy milk. All way to store and in store we had a hard discussion about this. First off all he said she was not the responsable for our case and she said she was just the one deeling out the cases. Which means she should have pretty good look on all cases, right?

Well in the end she asks if she should help me to look up if something needed to be added to my application. And because I was not able to show up our marriage book in original they took a copy of a copy and that this girl said No No its so wrong! You need to show us the real book and then we will take a copy of that one... I tried to explain to her that it was not possible to take it with me to Sweden because Gökhan needed it to the interview for residence.

This girl says suddenly that we have to fix the book here or Gökhan have to go to Noter to get a new copy of the book and make the copy signed by 2 persons, which should cost much more and take so much longer time.

In this conversation she also drop the information that our case is now number 2 to get result. All this info she could not have given me yesterday so we could have got one more day to fix the book to Sweden. But now we will not have to book until next week and hopefully they will take the case right away and not place us in the end of line again.

Otherwise we are scrud when it comes to Gökhans residence permit!!

I sit here and enjoy that I dont start working until 16 today, its like I should have been off.

I have my husband online but little bad internet, I have a laundry going on with my shirts, I have already taken a nice shower, thinking if I should go out on the balcony to sit in the sun for a while but its pretty windy so I dont know. Nothing can be better then this!

Gökhan told me some news this morning that he finally got a job, a part time job at a friends cafe as a cook. Which is great! He starts working already on tuesday and it will just look good in his cv otherwise they will maybe ask alot of stupid questions when he comes to Sweden. Why he dident work for 2 years bla bla ...

So we hope he will be able to work alot now before he is coming here!

Today at dinner I sat with the garderner and we talked about Turkey and about me and my husband.

How it will be when he come here, about SFI, work, marriage, kids and so on. And the garderner asks me how long we have been together becouse we were at that point talking about marriage and he thought I was to young to me marride, anyway when I was counting back when we started our relationship I realize that it is exactelly one the day 3 years ago we became girlfriend and boyfriend, 1 june 2008. Amasing what time goes by fast!

Under this days we have had many happy days but also many sad days, and we will have pleanty more coming but now as husband and wife.

I love you man!!

This photo we took last year at our 2 years anniversary.

Hello Everyone! Long time no see ...

I have not been able to connect to internet here in Uppsala but finally it works! I was almost on my way to buy my own internet to make it work. It have happen some things seen last time I wrote.

Alot have happen at work, one wedding and mothersday was full of people also a big group from Italy.

The most nerve wracking have been today, Gökhan went to Ankara last night to apply for recidence. He had it early this morning and he wake me up and tell me to go online fast ...

He was totaly upset over what happen on interview, he answered wrong on questions and the ambassy was yelling to him why he dident know dates and places. But how could he be able to remember the the exact name of the hotel we stayed at in Kemer, not even I remember it!

They were also yelling to him about papers that he had been bringing papers that they dident want, but Gökhan had them with him just in case they wanted.

So now we dont know what will happen, everything depends on how wrong he answered. I guess they will compare his answers with my answers that I will send in 1 month later. Insallah it will work out in the end!!

This is the papers they wanted -

Gökhans passport copy

Nüfüs

My Extract of the Population Register

Our marrigebook

Application for residence permit to settle in Sweden (nr. 161011)

Application Family details (nr. 239011)

All this papers have to have a copy and be in english. Also you have to show the embassy a resit that the 1500 kr is payed in for the recidence. If we had been living together in Turkey for over 2 years we should have given them papers on contracts and registration papers.

Well now I am back here in sweden again and work is waiting me.

Yesterdays travel started at 4 am turkish time and I was not back at the hotel until at 9 pm swedish time. My travel with plane went great beside it was really full, first plane it was just 2 empty seats left.

When I came to Sweden I took the train to Uppsala and went to Skatteverket. At skatteverket it was so long line, when it finally was my time I was asked to refill a papers about Gökhan and my marriage. She wanted to see the wedding book but I did not have it so she had to be happy over the copy I had brought. I gave her my passport copy and even Gökhans. After that I was gonna chang my surname to Baysal and she first give me a paper that you use before the marriage. I told her is this not wrong paper and she just says yeah maybe and goes and get another one. It dident feel like they really knew what they were doing there but hopefully they will be able to fix it fast so we can get the right papers for Gökhans interview.

After I went to other side of town and looked at a apartment, it was a nice one but i have no internet and no tv. When I was done there I had 2 hours to kill until next apartment look on other side of the street. I have no idea where to go but I sneeked in to Uppsala univercity to pee and I saw they had a cafe there so I sat there and waited. I heared a group girls talk about bananas, who of them that eats that little black head on top of it. OMG! Is it like that to be a student..?

After I ran back, got a burger in the hurry and was so lucky to get the bus to Gimo. We are talking about seconds here! I was so so close to miss it.

1 hour later I was at the hotel and the first thing I hear it that 2 persons quit and one guy had been test working and he got fired 2 day becouse he had wrong shirt...CRAZY!

So its feels like I am walking on needles here, never knows what will happen.

I absolutely love and adore my husband for what he is doing for me!

I am so stressed out from work, finding an apartment and all about our signing plus Gökhans residence permit. I am even geting so stressed up for what bus I will take to the airport on tuesday ... and whats the piont with that?

So today I just wanted to hide in my room but my man said go somewhere and so I did, I went to uppsala. It was so fantastic to come from this little village and see some new people, new areas and stress down. I took a long lunch with dessert at IKEA and after that I walked around and looked in stores. I found something for my husband that we will use now when I am down there for this wonderful 9 days we will get together. My bag is even already packed, that much I am looking forward to be with him!