Oh look what my husband have found today on internet!

A site so he can practice swedish and I belive its exactely what they are teaching at SFI school (Swedish for immigrants). So hopefully it will pay of so he can pass school easy when he comes here and then easier come out in the work life.

Here is the link to the page if any other turkish wifes husband needs it ... Digitala Språket

Done and ready are now our marriage papers!

At 13.30 today I was at the lawyer and got the stamps and sign on our Marriage Licence and my Extract of the Population Register. So now we are just waiting unti the 10 may when I am going down there and the 11 the fearful blood tests are waiting me ...

We have had our first misunderstanding.

Not so funny, it always become a big deal from just a small small misunderstanding.

Today it started with that we talked about fruits becouse its bazaar today outside our house in Mersin. Gökhan asked what I wanted, I ask for strawberrys.

Now our misunderstanding is starting ...

Gökhan -> Yeah they are just 1 TL now.

Kristin -> So it will be kötu when Im there.

Gökhan -> Ha ha

Kristin -> No when its down on 1 tl its to soft for me so its not good its to dark.

Gökhan -> Sure it s the best time for it so not good for u, sweet u cannot eat it.

Kristin -> I know when its the best time, we have it in garden. Me personally dont like it when its dar.

Gökhan -> ok

Kristin -> I reather eat them green then dark

Gökhan -> Sure never ever sweet fruits

l know

oo this armut cok sweet 

not good

this muz cok sweet

not good

this cilek so sweet

not good

this uzum so sweet

not good

buy green

unready to eat

blabla

Yeap this is our giant problem! Sure he is right, in Sweden we never have the opportunity to get fruits when it is as best. But my problem with this nagging is that I am siting here at home and doing everything for our marriage and his residence. So this argue came totally wrong! I know he was joking but I dident take it so. Anyway its just to drop it and go on!

I am sitting here and waiting for the phonecall from Dufvenmarks lawyers ... I so wish that they have a time for me today to get Apostille stamp! Otherwise I have to wait until I am up in Gimo and I will have to run all over town to find their office.

Please let us to have luck today!

Ohh!! They just called!! But they dident have time to fix it today so maybe on tuesday he had time. That it should be so hard to just get a stamp and sign from a lawyer. It should take 2 min! Anyway at least I know now that its no point to go in to town today.

Lots of papers today!

This morning Gökhan got his passport just after 2 day! Its amazing how fast it goes but sure its not the same quailty on them as ours. But ours take so long time, 4 weeks thats to much!

After that he ran to scan it and his Nüfus, sent it to my mail and I hurry to dads house to print them out.

At dads house we had problem to print out, we started up the computers all over, we changed color in printer. Finally we realise that it was programed on wrong printer and then it was working so smooth.

Rushing of to postoffice to leave all papers so it INSALLAH can come with the boat tomorrow and will be in Skatteverkets office in Malmö on monday maybe tuesday.

When I got home I saw in the mail I got my Personbevis and Familjebevis for the interview.

We sent mail to the Swedish embassy to get and interview time for Gökhan. But it shows out they dont have much to do there right now so we got time already the 3 may. But we havent signed our marriage papers then so we will have to cancel that time and try later. Maybe that we can ask them if we can get it later, like in end of may.

Insallah all our work will do us good and that Gökhan is here in end of summer!