It was first time Gökhan and I was at our mountain house today. Its so high up in the mountain so you can feel your ears getting same pressure as in airplanes and we could also see the snow lawing on a mountain little far away from us. The temperatur there was 5 C and here at home it's 15 C, so for me it was so cold and I was wishing I had my winter clothes!

We went there to cut and spray medicine on all trees. Dede and Gökhan did that when Ayşe made up fire for BBQ and I was in kitchen cleaning up after some construction guys and then I made our sallad by using a tray as cutting board! We havent started to fix in that house yet so we have very limited things there. But we got our lunch, çay and fruits anyway!

When we sat inside and drank our çay a dog came up at terass and looked after food rest, but the thing was that our gate was closed so how came the dog in? Yeah we realiced later that she was climbing in on the roof of the little house dede made to have his tools in and then the dog was balance walking on the high fence. Then it was a simple thing to go inside and up to the terass. Such a smart dog and friendly. Gökhan and I went out walking and she was fallowing us everywhere and was playing and probably this was one of her happiest days. This is my dog from now on and her name is Daisy!

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وَلَا جُنَاحَ عَلَيۡكُمۡ فِيمَا عَرَّضۡتُم بِهِۦ مِنۡ خِطۡبَةِ ٱلنِّسَآءِ أَوۡ أَڪۡنَنتُمۡ فِىٓ أَنفُسِكُمۡ‌ۚ عَلِمَ ٱللَّهُ أَنَّكُمۡ سَتَذۡكُرُونَهُنَّ وَلَـٰكِن لَّا تُوَاعِدُوهُنَّ سِرًّا إِلَّآ أَن تَقُولُواْ قَوۡلاً۬ مَّعۡرُوفً۬ا‌ۚ وَلَا تَعۡزِمُواْ عُقۡدَةَ ٱلنِّڪَاحِ حَتَّىٰ يَبۡلُغَ ٱلۡكِتَـٰبُ أَجَلَهُ ۥ‌ۚ وَٱعۡلَمُوٓاْ أَنَّ ٱللَّهَ يَعۡلَمُ مَا فِىٓ أَنفُسِكُمۡ فَٱحۡذَرُوهُ‌ۚ وَٱعۡلَمُوٓاْ أَنَّ ٱللَّهَ غَفُورٌ حَلِيمٌ۬

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There is no sin for you in that which ye proclaim or hide in your minds concerning your troth with women. Allah knoweth that ye will remember them. But plight not your troth with women except by uttering a recognised form of words. And do not consummate the marriage until (the term) prescribed is run. Know that Allah knoweth what is in your minds, so beware of Him; and know that Allah is Forgiving, Clement.

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Det finns ingen synd för dig i det som ni förkunnar eller gömma sig i era sinnen om din tro med kvinnor. Allah vet att ni kommer att minnas dem. Men situationen inte din tro med kvinnor utom genom att uttala en erkänd form av ord. Och inte fullborda äktenskapet förrän (termen) föreskrivna körs. Vet att Allah vet vad som finns i era sinnen, så akta dig för honom, och vet att Allah är Förlåtande, Barmhärtig.

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لَّا جُنَاحَ عَلَيۡكُمۡ إِن طَلَّقۡتُمُ ٱلنِّسَآءَ مَا لَمۡ تَمَسُّوهُنَّ أَوۡ تَفۡرِضُواْ لَهُنَّ فَرِيضَةً۬‌ۚ وَمَتِّعُوهُنَّ عَلَى ٱلۡمُوسِعِ قَدَرُهُ ۥ وَعَلَى ٱلۡمُقۡتِرِ قَدَرُهُ ۥ مَتَـٰعَۢا بِٱلۡمَعۡرُوفِ‌ۖ حَقًّا عَلَى ٱلۡمُحۡسِنِينَ

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It is no sin for you if ye divorce women while yet ye have not touched them, nor appointed unto them a portion. Provide for them, the rich according to his means, and the straitened according to his means, a fair provision. (This is) a bounden duty for those who do good.

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Det är ingen synd för er om ni skilsmässa kvinnor medan ännu ni inte har rört dem eller utses till dem en del. Ge för dem, de rika enligt hans sätt, och sätter tvångströja enligt hans sätt, en rättvis bestämmelse. (Detta är) en plikt för dem som gör gott.

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وَإِن طَلَّقۡتُمُوهُنَّ مِن قَبۡلِ أَن تَمَسُّوهُنَّ وَقَدۡ فَرَضۡتُمۡ لَهُنَّ فَرِيضَةً۬ فَنِصۡفُ مَا فَرَضۡتُمۡ إِلَّآ أَن يَعۡفُونَ أَوۡ يَعۡفُوَاْ ٱلَّذِى بِيَدِهِۦ عُقۡدَةُ ٱلنِّكَاحِ‌ۚ وَأَن تَعۡفُوٓاْ أَقۡرَبُ لِلتَّقۡوَىٰ‌ۚ وَلَا تَنسَوُاْ ٱلۡفَضۡلَ بَيۡنَكُمۡ‌ۚ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ بِمَا تَعۡمَلُونَ بَصِيرٌ

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If ye divorce them before ye have touched them and ye have appointed unto them a portion, then (pay the) half of that which ye appointed, unless they (the women) agree to forgo it, or he agreeth to forgo it in whose hand is the marriage tie. To forgo is nearer to piety. And forget not kindness among yourselves. Allah is Seer of what ye do.

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Om ni skilsmässa dem innan ni har berört dem och ni har utsett till dem en del, sedan (betala) hälften av det som ni utsedd, om de (kvinnor) är överens om att avstå från den, eller han gick med på att avstå från den i vars hand är äktenskapet slips. Att avstå är närmare fromhet. Och glöm inte godhet bland er själva. Allah Ser vad ni gör.