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يَـٰٓأَيُّہَا ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُواْ لَا تَتَّخِذُواْ بِطَانَةً۬ مِّن دُونِكُمۡ لَا يَأۡلُونَكُمۡ خَبَالاً۬ وَدُّواْ مَا عَنِتُّمۡ قَدۡ بَدَتِ ٱلۡبَغۡضَآءُ مِنۡ أَفۡوَٲهِهِمۡ وَمَا تُخۡفِى صُدُورُهُمۡ أَكۡبَرُ‌ۚ قَدۡ بَيَّنَّا لَكُمُ ٱلۡأَيَـٰتِ‌ۖ إِن كُنتُمۡ تَعۡقِلُونَ

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O ye who believe! Take not for intimates others than your own folk, who would spare no pains to ruin you; they love to hamper you. Hatred is revealed by (the utterance of) their mouths, but that which their breasts hide is greater. We have made plain for you the revelations if ye will understand.

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O ni som tror! Ta inte för antyder andra än din egen folk, som skulle spara någon möda för att förstöra dig, de älskar att hindra dig. Hat är framgår av (yttrandet av) sina munnar, men det som deras bröst dölja är större. Vi har gjort klart för dig uppenbarelserna om ni kommer att förstå.

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هَـٰٓأَنتُمۡ أُوْلَآءِ تُحِبُّونَہُمۡ وَلَا يُحِبُّونَكُمۡ وَتُؤۡمِنُونَ بِٱلۡكِتَـٰبِ كُلِّهِۦ وَإِذَا لَقُوكُمۡ قَالُوٓاْ ءَامَنَّا وَإِذَا خَلَوۡاْ عَضُّواْ عَلَيۡكُمُ ٱلۡأَنَامِلَ مِنَ ٱلۡغَيۡظِ‌ۚ قُلۡ مُوتُواْ بِغَيۡظِكُمۡ‌ۗ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ عَلِيمُۢ بِذَاتِ ٱلصُّدُورِ

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Lo! ye are those who love them though they love you not, and ye believe in all the Scripture. When they fall in with you they say: We believe; but when they go apart they bite their finger-tips at you, for rage. Say: Perish in your rage! Lo! Allah is Aware of what is hidden in (your) breasts.

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Lo! ni är dem som älskar dem trots att de älskar dig inte, och ni tror på hela Skriften. När de faller med dig säger de: Vi tror, men när de går isär de biter sina fingertoppar på dig, för vrede. Säg: gå under i din ilska! Lo! Allah är medveten om vad som döljer sig i (din) bröst.

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إِن تَمۡسَسۡكُمۡ حَسَنَةٌ۬ تَسُؤۡهُمۡ وَإِن تُصِبۡكُمۡ سَيِّئَةٌ۬ يَفۡرَحُواْ بِهَا‌ۖ وَإِن تَصۡبِرُواْ وَتَتَّقُواْ لَا يَضُرُّڪُمۡ كَيۡدُهُمۡ شَيۡـًٔا‌ۗ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ بِمَا يَعۡمَلُونَ مُحِيطٌ۬

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If a lucky chance befall you, it is evil unto them, and if disaster strike you they rejoice thereat. But if ye persevere and keep from evil their guile will never harm you. Lo! Allah is Surrounding what they do.

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Om en lycklig slump drabba dig, är det ont för dem, och om katastrofen slår er blir de glada därur. Men om ni håller ut och hålla från det onda deras svek aldrig kommer att skada dig. Lo! Allah är Kringliggande vad de gör.

We have had our first misunderstanding.

Not so funny, it always become a big deal from just a small small misunderstanding.

Today it started with that we talked about fruits becouse its bazaar today outside our house in Mersin. Gökhan asked what I wanted, I ask for strawberrys.

Now our misunderstanding is starting ...

Gökhan -> Yeah they are just 1 TL now.

Kristin -> So it will be kötu when Im there.

Gökhan -> Ha ha

Kristin -> No when its down on 1 tl its to soft for me so its not good its to dark.

Gökhan -> Sure it s the best time for it so not good for u, sweet u cannot eat it.

Kristin -> I know when its the best time, we have it in garden. Me personally dont like it when its dar.

Gökhan -> ok

Kristin -> I reather eat them green then dark

Gökhan -> Sure never ever sweet fruits

l know

oo this armut cok sweet 

not good

this muz cok sweet

not good

this cilek so sweet

not good

this uzum so sweet

not good

buy green

unready to eat

blabla

Yeap this is our giant problem! Sure he is right, in Sweden we never have the opportunity to get fruits when it is as best. But my problem with this nagging is that I am siting here at home and doing everything for our marriage and his residence. So this argue came totally wrong! I know he was joking but I dident take it so. Anyway its just to drop it and go on!

I am sitting here and waiting for the phonecall from Dufvenmarks lawyers ... I so wish that they have a time for me today to get Apostille stamp! Otherwise I have to wait until I am up in Gimo and I will have to run all over town to find their office.

Please let us to have luck today!

Ohh!! They just called!! But they dident have time to fix it today so maybe on tuesday he had time. That it should be so hard to just get a stamp and sign from a lawyer. It should take 2 min! Anyway at least I know now that its no point to go in to town today.